Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2015
The problem is that "B" is stirring the pot, basically running her mouth. She is a pot stirrer and loves drama.... I got a nasty email from "B" and I did not even respond back. Which only made her madder, that I won't play along. So apparently things have gotten out of hand with her trying to tell everyone who they are going to room and telling everyone what the trip itinerary is that she has decided on what's best for the group to point that several more ladies have dropped out. Normally we just get where we are going and decide then. This is the first time that "B" has been the point person for one of our trips...
Couple of comments here:
1) If the sharing the room thing is more mainly about costs why not just have the girls talk about who they want to share with themselves. I mean...they are adults I would assume they can be trusted to say "hey I'll share with you". Or do you normally have the point person designate people to rooms?
2) You've already said you typically get your own room so there's no real shocker that you'd do the same for this Vegas trip.
3) I'm going to say with what you've written and not knowing the people that this is more about "B" being the first time as the point person and people not following with what she hopes would happen. Where it gets all downhill is "B" not taking a step back and adjusting her expecatations of what being a point person for the girls trips mean. I'm assuming she already knows you typically get your own room so it's like she's taking the fact that she's the point person as her word/plans are what is going to happen--regardless of how past trips went. It could be hurt feelings on her end (not due to what anyone else has done) and instead of bucking up and deal with it she's lashing out in quite the immature way.
I do agree that it could be the begininng of the end of the trips or at least how they were in the past. It happens as lives changes and priorities shift. Maybe low-key trips might be more in your future or even just a few nights over time instead for girls night out.
*I don't really blame you for backing out by the way*