vancesmom
Wearing my ears since '79
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2007
I totally agree! Accepting money from inlaws can be like selling your soul!
Be very very careful.
It saddens me that you come across so cold about the situation. Money is money. It is the the end all of who a person is. In addition, I think it's weird how soooo many are "anti" in-law. I know as well as any that in-laws can be crazy and it takes some patience to deal with them. However, when you married your husband/wife you also married their family. It's true. Just because a man marries a woman - he doesn't stop being his mother's son. Now I totally understand this woman's dilema but the MIL is not a complete villian here.
My advice - follow thru with your vacation. Enjoy yourself it's Disney World! But if there are things that really bother you or that you really want - stand up for yourself! She may have money but you are the mother of her grandchildren and the wife of her son - that has some negotiation power.