i suspect matts one of those guys who gets focused on a want and looks at the cost but figures that money will, in his mind, inevitable appear to cover it, but does'nt look at how much it's cost will be in their day to day expenses.
by that i mean, when amy was questioning how they were affording the expansion he kept talking about how well the pumpkin farm was doing 'now' while amy was talking about their ongoing needs and even the existance of college funding for the kids (i was surprised, even if he has taken over the finances, that she did'nt know if college funds had been set up and seemed surprised when he said he had also set up some kind of accounts for he and her-i'm guessing for retirement). in the begining of the show amy was out there working not out of want, but because they expressed that someone needed to be providing for their day to day needs-and it was'nt until she pushed the issue that matt went out and got a job.
i dunno, i just look at what he perceives as their big money maker-the pumpkin patch and think that it's ill conceived to be overly reliant on it as the means to fund big projects. they are realy reliant on their kids and family to work there, and as the kids get older and go to college or get their own jobs they will be less available or inclined to work there (molly was'nt thrilled to be working there this past season), matt's parents are getting older and it's inevitable that the time will come where they are no longer able. the whole patch is also a buisness that can be totaly unviable if bad fortune in the event of a bad crop one year comes up (not unusual for farmers to have periodic bad seasons esp. if they are'nt rotating a crop to preserve the soil which it does'nt appear they do) AND in times of bad economy people (customers) tend to forego luxury shopping (which to me, buying a pumpkin to decorate it and toss it out a few days later clearly is). i just don't see it as the big cash cow he perceives it as (and i would wonder how a bank would view it as equity to fund a re-model of a home).
i thought it was interesting and telling to some extent on a recent episode where amy/molly go whale watching and leave the guys at home. matts sends the boys to grocery shop with some money and HIS list. the boys repeatedly say in the voice overs that their dad has no concept how much food costs and that they will have to purchase the stuff that everyone needs and probably can't buy everything their dad wanted on the list. then they get home and tell him that they got what they could, but there was'nt enuf money for everything and all he's focused on is that they did'nt get him the box of cereal he wants (crispix i think) and says over and over something like 'i think crispix is a right not a luxury', 'why did'nt you get my crispix', 'crispix is a basic right or should be', 'i don't know why you could'nt get me what i wanted'....
gese, the kids are explaining he did'nt send them with enuf money and he's like a spoiled 4 year old whining over it and pouting. i can't imagine being amy and having to grocery shop for a person like this-when he's determining how much is in the budget for shopping and then likely taking away from that budget by virtue of taking on costly projects.
btw-did anyone like dh and i did, when watching the show about the opening of the pumpkin patch show, get kind of
that they were jimmy rigging the loading and unloading structures for those rides they're not doing around the farm? i was just watching how they do so much of the stuff by trial and error and up until minutes before they are loading people and wonder if the county they live in has no laws about safety and why it does'nt appear as though anyone ever comes in an inspects/approves these things? the only time i've ever seen him have an actual county inspector come out and do permits is when they had the pool put in-and that's for their own use, not the general publics.
i dunno, between a filthy kitchen where they are shown handling the food products they sell (molly's jam), and trial and error rigged rides for customers (and is it even legal for the twins as minors to be driving the public via those tractors?) it's not a raging compulsion on my part to load up my kids and head over.