Parents of the High School Class of 2017/College 2021

Mamacatnv is correct, A&M is a cult. And we start training them early. LOL

Fish review is for the freshmen joining the corps of cadets or the band. It is like a military review for the parents. A&M has a march in before every home football game.
VERY impressive - certainly something to see - Since we are college football fans, we had been told we HAD to go to an A&M game just for the experience, we were very fortunate that the Nevada coach at the time had connections to A&M and brought the Wolf Pack down. The whole day, hanging out waiting from the Review to the bus ride back to the parking lot was an experience that we thoroughly enjoyed.

I wish my DD was interested in A&M, I would love to be an Aggie parent LOL, I love the culture!

I worked with a guy when we first moved here who is an Alumn, he refers to College Station as "the center of the known universe" this is used every time he mentions A&M
 
VERY impressive - certainly something to see - Since we are college football fans, we had been told we HAD to go to an A&M game just for the experience, we were very fortunate that the Nevada coach at the time had connections to A&M and brought the Wolf Pack down. The whole day, hanging out waiting from the Review to the bus ride back to the parking lot was an experience that we thoroughly enjoyed.

I wish my DD was interested in A&M, I would love to be an Aggie parent LOL, I love the culture!

I worked with a guy when we first moved here who is an Alumn, he refers to College Station as "the center of the known universe" this is used every time he mentions A&M

When my daughter was visiting colleges one of the questions she had was "is football big here" and she scratched all the ones that said "yes" off her list-that wasn't the type of environment she wanted for her school. She wanted one where sports did not play a big part (especially football).
 
When my daughter was visiting colleges one of the questions she had was "is football big here" and she scratched all the ones that said "yes" off her list-that wasn't the type of environment she wanted for her school. She wanted one where sports did not play a big part (especially football).

That's how my daughter is. She wasn't rah rah in high school so that definitely isn't what she wants for college.

Her big thing is being able to see what she calls "real people" while she's in college. They would be anyone not working at or going to the school. Being in the middle of DC she'll get see lots of them.

It's great that there are so many college choices that fit our kids wants and needs.
 
When my daughter was visiting colleges one of the questions she had was "is football big here" and she scratched all the ones that said "yes" off her list-that wasn't the type of environment she wanted for her school. She wanted one where sports did not play a big part (especially football).

That's how my daughter is. She wasn't rah rah in high school so that definitely isn't what she wants for college.

Her big thing is being able to see what she calls "real people" while she's in college. They would be anyone not working at or going to the school. Being in the middle of DC she'll get see lots of them.

It's great that there are so many college choices that fit our kids wants and needs.
My DD "hates" the sports culture. Its ironic, she spent 4 years in high school as part of the Athletic Training program and I thought she might like the culture but she does not, I think it cemented in her brain even more reasons why she doesn't like it. She too is avoiding big sports schools
 


When my daughter was visiting colleges one of the questions she had was "is football big here" and she scratched all the ones that said "yes" off her list-that wasn't the type of environment she wanted for her school. She wanted one where sports did not play a big part (especially football).

That's how my daughter is. She wasn't rah rah in high school so that definitely isn't what she wants for college.

Her big thing is being able to see what she calls "real people" while she's in college. They would be anyone not working at or going to the school. Being in the middle of DC she'll get see lots of them.

It's great that there are so many college choices that fit our kids wants and needs.

Kids are so different! My DD looked for 3 things:
1) The majors she was interested in
2) Dorm style campus (not a commuter campus)
3) Big football!
 
DD is currently filling out lots of online forms for her school. She filled out one of the medical forms giving me permission to access her medical info via the school's website, but I'm wondering what happens if she has some type of illness or injury and is hospitalized. Will the hospital call me? Will they talk to me? Does anyone know if there is paperwork that we need for this type of situation?
 
DD is currently filling out lots of online forms for her school. She filled out one of the medical forms giving me permission to access her medical info via the school's website, but I'm wondering what happens if she has some type of illness or injury and is hospitalized. Will the hospital call me? Will they talk to me? Does anyone know if there is paperwork that we need for this type of situation?
Important Documents
Moms and dads who still think of themselves as protectors and advisers, even after their children become legal adults, often don’t consider the real-world implications of that milestone birthday. They and their young-adult children need to think about the unthinkable in advance. Three forms—HIPAA authorization, medical power of attorney, and durable power of attorney—will help facilitate the involvement of a parent or other trusted adult in a medical emergency.

If a student attends college out of state, fill out the forms relevant to the home state and school state to avoid any challenges. If the school has its own form, sign that one too, Warsh said. “When the doctor or medical institution sees it, you want them to be familiar with it and recognize it,” she said.

Once the forms are completed, it’s a good idea to scan and save them so that they are readily available on a smartphone or home computer.

You don’t need a lawyer to do this. Many websites have downloadable forms. But a lawyer’s involvement can benefit in making sure you are using the right form, explaining it, and advocating on your behalf in case something goes wrong.

HIPAA authorization: A signed HIPAA authorization is like a permission slip. It permits healthcare providers to disclose your health information to anyone you specify. A stand-alone HIPAA authorization (not incorporated into a broader legal document) does not have to be notarized or witnessed. This document alone, signed in advance by her son, would have sufficed for Warsh to get information from the hospital treating her 18-year-old son. Young people who want parents to be involved in a medical emergency, but fear disclosure of sensitive information, need not worry; HIPAA authorization does not have to be all-encompassing. The young adults can stipulate not to disclose information about sex, drugs, mental health, or other details they might want to keep private.

Medical power of attorney: In signing a medical POA, you appoint an “agent” to make medical decisions on your behalf in case you are incapacitated and cannot make such decisions for yourself. Each state has different laws governing medical POA and, therefore, different legal forms. In many states, the HIPAA authorization is rolled into the standard medical POA form. Whether the medical POA requires the signature of a witness or notary varies state by state.

For the sake of clarifying often-used terms: A medical POA sometimes goes by other names, such as healthcare power of attorney, designation of healthcare proxy, or durable power of attorney for health care. It is one type of advance directive. The other type is a living will, which specifies your wishes with regard to interventions in life-or-death scenarios in case you are unable to do so. In many states, the language for the living will is also incorporated into a hybrid document that includes the medical POA and HIPAA release.

Durable power of attorney: As an additional step, young-adult children might consider appointing a durable power of attorney, enabling a parent or other designated agent to take care of business on the student’s behalf. If the student were to become incapacitated or if the student were studying abroad, the durable power of attorney would be able to, for example, sign tax returns, access bank accounts, and pay bills. Durable POA forms vary by state. In some states the medical POA can be included in the durable POA form. “The durable power of attorney is sweeping,” Wolk said. “You do not want to give it to someone who you do not trust.”
 


My daughter is only 17 but when she comes home on Thanksgiving break we are going to be taking care of all that paperwork!
 
DD is currently filling out lots of online forms for her school. She filled out one of the medical forms giving me permission to access her medical info via the school's website, but I'm wondering what happens if she has some type of illness or injury and is hospitalized. Will the hospital call me? Will they talk to me? Does anyone know if there is paperwork that we need for this type of situation?
Aprilgail answered this - I have Medical Power of Attorney for both kids. I've not gone so far as to the Durable but if they were to leave the country, then I would. If DS had a spouse, that would be one thing but neither of the kids do as of yet.
I keep a copy on my phone as well as in an email folders so that if I need it in a hurry, I do not have to be at home where the document is stored in the family safe.
 
Hmm, was browsing the Craigslist part time jobs for her college town and took another look at one I'd seen before for sales clerk. I assumed it was a gift shop, but since it mentioned operating a heat press I looked further and it's actually a custom screenprinting shop. This could be excellent experience for a graphic design student- maybe she could eventually get in on the designing aspect. They say to email with hours you are available and when you can start, so it sounds flexible. She wanted to settle in a couple weeks before applying anywhere, but maybe for this she could get her name in now and pick a start date a little after school starts. I need to tell DD about it tonight and see what she thinks.

The other job she is somewhat intrigued by (besides Michael's) is product demonstrator- i.e. food samples in the grocery store. That one also looks like you can pick and choose the shifts you want to pick up. There is also a LOT of new development coming up next to her apartment, but mostly restaurants and she's not sure about waitressing. I just hope she finds something she really likes.

This Sunday she and her roommates are having a get-to-know-you brunch in a park. They're each bringing their own sandwich or main dish, but bringing other items to share. She found out her apartment number starts with a 1, so I'm expecting ground floor which is nice for moving furniture at least!
 
That's how my daughter is. She wasn't rah rah in high school so that definitely isn't what she wants for college.

Her big thing is being able to see what she calls "real people" while she's in college. They would be anyone not working at or going to the school. Being in the middle of DC she'll get see lots of them.

It's great that there are so many college choices that fit our kids wants and needs.

Exactly! While my family loves A&M, I know many people who would be miserable there. We are so blessed that there are so many opportunities for our kids out there. It will be interesting to see if little brother follows in their footsteps or chooses another school.
 
Hmm, was browsing the Craigslist part time jobs for her college town and took another look at one I'd seen before for sales clerk. I assumed it was a gift shop, but since it mentioned operating a heat press I looked further and it's actually a custom screenprinting shop. This could be excellent experience for a graphic design student- maybe she could eventually get in on the designing aspect. They say to email with hours you are available and when you can start, so it sounds flexible. She wanted to settle in a couple weeks before applying anywhere, but maybe for this she could get her name in now and pick a start date a little after school starts. I need to tell DD about it tonight and see what she thinks.

A friend's son started working part time for a custom screen printing shop. Since it mainly did college activities, they were very understanding to their college employees. He has just graduated and is now working full time as a manager. He loves it!
 
A friend's son started working part time for a custom screen printing shop. Since it mainly did college activities, they were very understanding to their college employees. He has just graduated and is now working full time as a manager. He loves it!

Cool! DD is very interested. Looks like the bulk of their business is college apparel, and like Color Run type things. Last night got busy so she plans to compose the email tonight. Just hoping they can wait for her as she won't be available for at least a month. The ad said hiring sales clerks so if it's more than one position open that helps. I like that they close at 8 on weekdays and 6 on weekends so she wouldn't have late nights, if she gets hired.
 
My dd who had major drama earlier over a roommate issue, has just learned that the second girl assigned to her just backed out! She moves in 10 days and is so upset!
 
My dd who had major drama earlier over a roommate issue, has just learned that the second girl assigned to her just backed out! She moves in 10 days and is so upset!

Sorry to hear that! Hope she ends up with a great person!

Roomie situations are tough. My DD is in a quad, and one girl won't respond to any group chat between them.
 
DS filled out a roommate profile for his school. He also browsed other profiles but didn't message anyone. Within about a week, he got a message from
a guy who thought they would be a good match. DS agreed and they submitted their names and dorm building preference together. It was very easy and drama-free!

They've emailed back and forth a few times. Neither cares about coordinating colors or decor. We will talk to the roommate and his parents when we get there about the boys sharing a fridge and a TV. We can pick those up easily enough at Walmart or Target.

I'm glad it's been an easy process so far. I'm making the first tuition payment on Monday. That might smart a bit!
 

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