dosekies
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- Joined
- Mar 23, 2017
I'm trying to take over finances for the two of us. We aren't married yet (we are engaged) and just moved into our first apartment together this past summer, so we also still have separate banking accounts. We grew up VERY differently financially - I was taught to save your money and really think about your big purchases and that paying your bills always comes first while he grew up experiencing a family where you buy what you want and deal with it later. Because of that, I've been having to teach him that you can't just go out and buy the 60,000 truck you want without thinking of how it will affect every other aspect of your life, or that we can't have a child right now with the amount of savings that we have, or that we can't afford a specific apartment on the amount of money we make and still expect to live the way we do.
Luckily, I have made a lot of progress in getting him to understand these things but still have a ways to go haha. When we moved out of our parents' houses, I ran both of our finances and set up direct payments for each of us for the utilities/rent. I fully expect this to continue in the future and I'm sure at some point once we get married we will venture into a joint bank account to help.
Luckily, I have made a lot of progress in getting him to understand these things but still have a ways to go haha. When we moved out of our parents' houses, I ran both of our finances and set up direct payments for each of us for the utilities/rent. I fully expect this to continue in the future and I'm sure at some point once we get married we will venture into a joint bank account to help.