snowman
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- Joined
- Nov 9, 1999
An 8 year old is in 3rd grade. Here they walk to school by themselves. They do homework by themselves. At school and on field trips they use the bathroom by themselves. They can "cook" simple meals by themselves (sandwiches, Ez Mac etc). They are considered tweens. Some have started puberty.
Not all 8 year olds are third graders. As I have said, my son has a January birthday, meaning he will just be in the second trimester of second grade, as will all of his peers with a birthday AFTER October 19, 2008. That's the state cut off for school. Much of the skill-set required for the above tasks are more dependent on maturity than age. My nephew is 22 yo and still doesn't cook without setting something on fire.
Again, not speaking for all 7 year olds (which my son is right now), but my son is very socially immature though highly empathetic. He is the kid that if an older child said "I dare you to..." (Fill in the blank) he would. He did at camp, prompting many discussions over those situations.
I have shared the fabulous suggestions that I have received here with my wife. She is as grateful as I am.