TB'sWidow
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Nov 3, 2003
sorry he is struggling. The girls response to him is troubling and he should advocate for himself as much as you wanna step in a call her out on her response, I know cause I would wanna do the same lol you have to let him handle it. Here’s hoping things get better for himOh boy - my DS continues to struggle. I pushed him to get a part-time job and he HATES it - and it is stressing him out. I think it was too much too soon. I thought it would help him meet people. Well, moving in with a total stranger and meeting guys in the dorm was probably enough new people to meet for an introvert. He calls me crying, and wants to come home, and that he made the biggest mistake of his life, etc., etc. I told him to quit the job and see if that helps. He had a four hour training, which was two hours on the computer taking tests and paperwork. Then he worked a four hour shift. They forgot to order him a name tag, so everybody kept yelling "new kid" at him and getting annoyed because he was "too slow" and "don't you know where anything is?" Well, of course not. His training was - just ask questions. I know most/part of it is him. My DD would be completely unfazed by that and would have dug her heels in and/or told them where to go!! My DS just wilts and cowers. Sigh.......
So, I helped him write a resignation letter, it was nice and polite. His boss responded back that she expects him to finish his shifts (two more four shifts this weekend) and he will NEVER work on campus again because she is going to fire him and put him in bad standing. Ummmm, really? Why would it matter if a student worked when he was just an "extra" anyway? Okay, well, of course, that put him over the edge AGAIN. I told him to NOT engage anymore with her and the university is in a rather large city, so there are a million other places to work........eventually.
I am SO TEMPTED to e-mail this girl back and give it to her, but both my DS and my DH have told me no, to leave it alone. But it so hard!!!!