focusondisney
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 7, 2009
I never tell anything about AN ex, like a specific one. As I said, the reason my spidey senses went off was because - the way I was framing things shouldn't have given rise to much of anything...and now that he's heard one all the way through, I think/hope he'll be chill. I just don't deal in insecurities, jealousies, and other such nonsense, just had/have to make sure that this isn't that... it may still be, but I feel about a zillion times better than I did. I think he understands that just because I say "OMG, this one time x and I got left at the ruins by our tour group" does not mean I'm about to tell him anything about whatever ex was involved in that particular craziness, just that it was a nutty story. The guy figures in, but its NOT an ex story. As I said to begin with, over the course of 7-8 dates, he's only had to cut me off twice, that's the only time, until tonight, I'd mentioned an ex at all. I think I'm being appropriate?
So you bring up an ex on 3 out of 8 or 9 dates? That's 1/3rd of the dates you've been on with this guy. Yea, you are bringing up the ex too much. Move on from your ex already.