A little of each. I've been following the science, not just the mass media, and I've definitely formed my own hierarchy of risk that might not exactly line up with the economic/political processes that are guiding the reopening, and I'll let that guide my comfort level. So it'll be a while before I dine in at a restaurant or host a dinner party, but I'd be just fine enjoying patio dining if it were to reopen. I'm pretty low-maintenance so salon and spa services are entirely theoretical to me anyway but they'd be about the last thing I'd do right now. I'm good with most outdoor activities, though, and with activities that only involve other people in passing rather than in prolonged face-to-face contact. I'm anxious to get back to road-tripping but not as sure about travel that would involve flying, though with masks required I'd probably do it for the right trip.
The main thing I'm very uncomfortable with right now, and the single factor that could change a lot of my perception of risk, is the widespread refusal to wear masks and the reluctance of our leaders to make them truly mandatory. People just don't understand how masks work - mine doesn't protect me, it protects you from me - and this whole concept of "freedom" to take the risk of not wearing a mask is based on that misunderstanding and puts everyone at greater risk. Masks are such a cheap, easy, low-risk measure and we can look around the world and see how much of a difference they make in the trajectory of the outbreak and the pace of reopening. I really don't understand the resistance.