Trentmom
<font color=red>A Christmas"y" tag for a Christmas
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- Jan 21, 2007
GEESH I couldn't find the darn thread or I would've posted sooner!!!
Here is what we decided. WE are going in the spring 2008 whether the IL's go or not.
We are going..I'll start planning soon, but I'm not going to rush into anything.
After about 3 cocktails each(pomengranite martinis), I mention to MIL, "So we are thinking this Spring.... We want to go before it gets super hot and before most schools let out." She goes, " Go where?" (like its never been talked about before). "Disneyworld. We are going. You may want to check your schedule if you'd like to plan a group vacay thing- if not, we can all go together another time. But we are for sure going sometime in the Spring." She says, "Well, let me know when you nail down some dates..."
That was IT. No brawl. No tears.
Shortly thereafter, she tries to control a totally different situation... I will quickly explain...
The IL's graciously offer to watch our kids for 4 days in early July, so DH and I can go somewhere, ANYWHERE for a short getaway. We are still undecided as to where we will go. MIL quickly begged us to go up to Lake Winnepesaukie (In New Hampshire) to visit a relative of hers so that she doesn't have to make the trip. If we do it, she'll pay for our whole 4 day vacay, airfare, lodging, food etc......
Of course, DH is once again saying, "Why not? Lets do it."
I politely decline her "offer" via email 2 days ago and have not heard from her since.
There are always STRINGS attached to everything this woman dangles in our face! Everything always seems nice and gracious, but then she pulls out a big bag of stipulations. You think she is mad??
Great JOb!!!!! So proud you stood your ground...
I am sure you are aware, but March and april are super crowded with all the school spring breaks and such.
So, early may is an awesome time to go....that is when I went this year and last and the crowds were great!!!
Just my two cents, as I want you and your DH to have a great trip with your DD!!!!!