cabanafrau
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 10, 2006
OP, are you sure that the personal items/photos still exist? When my grandfather moved, he sold everything - and I mean everything. He sold old photo albums, and personal items. Some of the stuff that was sold ended up on Ebay. Contact your stepmother, if that goes no where you need to let it go.
If the will is very recent as OP suggested, the stepmother and/or Personal Rep of the estate may have to explain how and why property of the estate is not able to be distributed to the rightful beneficiaries. Sometimes judges will financially penalize someone for maliciously or recklessly preventing beneficiaries to what was rightfully intended for their benefit and enjoyment. I know of an award of several times the monetary value of a collectible train set that was very deliberately kept from a son in his father's estate by his aunt (dad's sister in law), who was also removed as PR of the estate and was denied payment of her lawyer's bills from the estate, which are ordinarily a privilege of a PR.
If a will was written 15 years ago and the deceased had control of his property and was physically and mentally capable of managing his affairs until six months ago a judge isn't likely to blame missing family photo albums on the PR without very good evidence. But a recent will making a personal bequest of a specific item may require serious demonstration that negligence or fraud isn't the cause for the unexplained inability to locate it.